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Building an Inclusive Church

Faith-Based Community Organizing

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Building an Inclusive Church training

Perhaps you are a leader (lay or ordained) in a congregation which is considering becoming welcoming to lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgendered (lgbt) persons. Perhaps you are committed deeply to helping other congregations in your denomination become more welcoming of lgbt folks. Either scenario means that this training will be very helpful to you in honing your skills and gaining more knowledge about how to help congregations through those tough conversations toward a more fully inclusive church.

Upcoming Training Opportunities

Building an Inclusive Church Training

May 3-4, 2013
New Paltz, NY

May 4, 2013
Vancouver, WA

October 4-5, 2013
San Antonio, TX

November 1-2, 2013
Minneapolis, MN

November 8-9, 2013
Dunedin, FL (Tampa area)

Process Coach Training

Do you want to help increase the number of welcoming churches, communities and campus ministries? Fall 2012 RMN, IWR's partner working for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church, began offering a new training in the art of coaching congregations, Sunday school classes and campus ministries through the welcoming process. In their pilot year we're offering 10 trainings to identify volunteers who are ready to coach a prospective community to take a next step in the Reconciling process. Each process coach training will include skills building around topics common in the Reconciling process including: complex identities, framing, steps of the Reconciling Process, graceful engagement, and conflict management.

Upcoming Process Coach Trainings

  • April 26-27, 2013 - Bothel, WA

Register for Process Coach Trainings

Having trouble registering? Email admin@rmnetwork.org or call 773-736-5526.

Believe Out Loud Workshops

Believe Out Loud workshops will help you to speak to people in your church or diocese about why it's important to welcome and include LGBT people in the life of your church communities. Many of our congregations have a long history of inclusion. Sometimes, however, it is helpful to take a look at our congregation as others might see it and explore what messages we are sending to our communities about who is welcome among us. With the tools you will gain from this workshop, you can work with your fellow Christians to build your churches as inclusive communities that welcome EVERYONE into the body of Christ.

Upcoming Believe Out Loud Workshops

  • Hackettstown NJ - April 27, 2013
    11:00AM to 4:00PM
  • Mission, KS - June 1, 2013
    9:30AM to 4:00PM
  • Seattle, WA - June 8, 2013
    9:30AM to 4:00PM
  • Norwich, CT - June 08, 2013
    9:30AM to 4:00PM

Register for Believe Out Loud Workshops

Graceful Engagement Webinar

  • Join together online to learn about graceful engagement in the art of making conversation over difficult topics, such as LGBT full-inclusion in the church
  • This was recorded and is available to online. Click here to see it.
  • A computer with internet access and sound capability is required.

These training workshops are targeted to congregations affiliated with: The Episcopal Church, Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, United Church of Christ, Presbyterian Church (USA), United Methodist Church, Alliance of Baptists, American Baptist Churches USA, Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), Church of the Brethren, Community of Christ, Cooperative Baptist Fellowship, Mennonite Church USA, or Mennonite Church Canada, and Reformed Church in America, but anyone from any denomination or church is welcome.

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What to expect from this training?

The training has been designed specifically with congregations and their leaders in mind. We will explore topics which will help you to become a more effective leader in working with congregations on issues related to human sexuality and gender identity for the purpose of helping a congregation discern God's call to become more welcoming and inclusive, particularly of lgbt persons. Topics include:

  • Faith-based community organizing techniques
  • Congregational conflict theory and resolution
  • Managing change in congregations well
  • Effective strategies for helping congregations discern the call to be welcoming
  • Building relationships for change
  • Dealing with difficult conversations around biblical material, stereotypes, the "b" and the "t" questions, and other areas of concern
  • Opportunity to build relationships with others who share your concerns
  • Personal spiritual enrichment
  • Opportunity for growth and challenge
  • Intense few days of hard work, laughter, and fun

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Who should come?

Anyone who is interested in seeing the Church (meaning all churches) become more welcoming, supportive and inclusive of lgbt persons. This could include:

  • Lay leaders
  • Ordained leaders
  • Denominational or judicatory leaders
  • Members who care about these issues
  • Leaders and members in denominational lgbt groups

These training programs are supported by grants from the Arcus Foundation, the E. Rhodes & Leona Carpenter Foundation and the Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr. Fund.

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Training Schedule

For a schedule for each workshop, see the information packet for each training which can be linked to above.

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What does the training cost?

For registration fees and what is included in the fee, see the information packet for each training which can be linked to above.

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Lodging

Specific information on hotels near each training site can be found in the information packet for that specific training which can be linked to above.

Participants are responsible for making their own housing reservations.

Other Housing Options

Limited host housing is available on a first-come, first-served basis. Every effort to assist with transportation to and from the church will be made, but cannot be guaranteed.

Participants requesting host housing should check the box on the registration form indicating that request.

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Travel

Participants are responsible for making their own travel arrangements. Airports closest to the training location are listed in each registration packet which can be linked to above.

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Training Location

The training events are usually held at a church. The location is included in the registration packet. The street address and web site, if available, is also included.

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Meals

Information on the meals included in each training workshop is provided in the information packet. Please note on the registration form if you have any food allergies/restrictions or if you need vegetarian or vegan options.

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Registration

How do I register?

You may either follow the weblinks above to register and pay online or you may download and print a copy of the registration packet for the training event you wish to attend. Links for the registration packet for each training workshop are located at beginning of this page under each training date and location.

If you are registering by postal mail, please follow the instructions at the bottom of each registration form and make your check payable as listed on the form, as well.

Registration Confirmation

You will receive a registration confirmation e-mail (make sure you give us an e-mail address) or regular mail (if you do not have e-mail access).

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What Else Do I Need to Know?

  • Dress is casual.
  • Come rested and ready for a wonderful and intense experience!

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Questions??

For questions or more information, contact David Lohman by email or 612.821.4397.

Organizational Partners

Affirm United/S'affirmer Ensemble The Association of Welcoming & Affirming Baptists Brethren-Mennonite Council for LGBT Concerns Open and Affirming Ministries of the Gay, Lesbian & Affirming Disciples (GLAD) Integrity Reconciling Works
More Light Presbyterians Open and Affirming Program of the United Church of Christ Coalition for LGBT Concerns (ONA) Reconciling Ministries Network Room for All - Reformed Church in America Welcoming Community Network - Community of Christ